Loryen
Now that things have cooled down a bit... This is actually a good point that I missed in the initial discussion. (And I hope I can respond to it without dragging up the rest of the thread.)The only problem with that Beeficus is that which Meagon mentioned...were we even invited? We have debated that issue a bit on the Kami side and are still uncertain.
Note that initially the invitation was going to be only for Matis, as a Matis Royal wedding would logically be, but since so few people align to a civ, we (Noobles) requested it be extended to all Karavan so that less people would be excluded.
So, the invitation said "Matis and Karavan", but the invitation was in character. So what it means is that you show up to the event with a Kamist character, you'll be treated as an unwanted guest... but that's all part of the RP. The Royal family doesn't want Kamists at their wedding, but does that mean the Event Team doesn't want Kamists at the event?