Daomei (atys)
Be aware of misunderstandings. Not everything that is felt like bullying and is hurting like bullying is meant that way. Sometimes there are clashes of cultures, people believing to be entitled to what they feel isn't but harmless teasing.
Or maybe it's just a difference in tactics. For instance, I once tried to help a GL and HO from another guild trek one of their junior members by dragging 3 Kinchers away from them, allowing them to pass. Had they left well enough alone, they would've had a hole to run through while the Kinchers tried to chase down a crazy Tryker.
Instead, the GL nuked one of the Kinchers, forcing me (with the other two Kinchers in tow) to try and wrangle the wayward bug before it ripped their face off. Of course, that didn't end well, but I couldn't apologize at the time as I was trying to run my alt in for rezzing while they went on a loooong rant in Uni about how I dragged agro on them because I hated them, their nationality, and their guild.
A difference in tactics led to considerable bad blood. Tempers flared as the result of a simple misunderstanding.
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Do not assume that you speak for all just because you are the loudest voice; there are many who disagree that simply have no desire to waste words on you.